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Oh, Ben is definitely gonna fuck this up. He can't help it!
That said, JLo has been one to put up with him being a fuck up in ways Garner was not equipped to? I mean, *he* bolted from their first relationship, not her and it sure seemed like she had plenty of reason to bolt.
It feels like Garner got him during some healthy and happy and sober years. And she worked to eliminate the "bad influences" and I think it felt suffocating to him. He's gotta have some room to be a fuck up or he will go off the rails entirely. Miss Hospital Corners couldn't give him that room (NOR COULD I, so no shade even though I think she's tedious for being a Christian mom blogger at heart). I always felt like JLo tolerates some level of emotional chaos even though she seems pretty controlled with herself (with diet and exercise and her physical being)? Just based on who she dated.
Also, I think she likes Ben's bad streak in a way most of us would roll our eyes at? If anyone can keep him just in line enough? It's probably JLo!
That said, JLo has been one to put up with him being a fuck up in ways Garner was not equipped to? I mean, *he* bolted from their first relationship, not her and it sure seemed like she had plenty of reason to bolt.
It feels like Garner got him during some healthy and happy and sober years. And she worked to eliminate the "bad influences" and I think it felt suffocating to him. He's gotta have some room to be a fuck up or he will go off the rails entirely. Miss Hospital Corners couldn't give him that room (NOR COULD I, so no shade even though I think she's tedious for being a Christian mom blogger at heart). I always felt like JLo tolerates some level of emotional chaos even though she seems pretty controlled with herself (with diet and exercise and her physical being)? Just based on who she dated.
Also, I think she likes Ben's bad streak in a way most of us would roll our eyes at? If anyone can keep him just in line enough? It's probably JLo!
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